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Sunday, November 30, 2008

So here are 9 ways to push yourself in dating

If you have been reading my dating tips
for a long time, you should know that one of my
core philosophies is to constantly push one's
self-imposed limitations and go further than
other guys are willing to go. After all, most
people are lazy and if you are willing to go
further than them, then naturally you are going
to have more success in the world.


So here are 10 ways to push yourself in
dating:


1) Push yourself to make more friends: As I
always say, having a wild circle of friends or
an active social life is a must if you would
like to meet tons of women. The most popular
men and women are usually the ones that are
the most sociable.


2) Push yourself to flirt more: If you
flirt more than the average guy, you WILL
have more success in dating than the average
guy.


3) Push yourself to be more of a leader: The
alpha male always get more women than the average
Joe, and because most people would rather be
followers than leaders, often times you can
become alpha just be stepping up to the
plate and taking care of other people.


4) Push yourself in the gym: Muscles alone won't
help you in dating, but it definitely won't
hurt your success rate to look better.


5) Push yourself to advance with women: Be it
getting her number, holding her hand, or cuddling
with her, you should always be pushing ahead.


6) Push yourself to raise the bar: Improve the
quality of women you date over time, both in
terms of looks AND personality/character!


7) Push yourself in your education, business,
or career. Although I do not believe using money
to chase women, I totally believe that building
one's social status through wealth and education
can improve success in dating.


8) Push yourself to try new things: Cool people
have adventurous lives. Get yourself out there!


9) Push yourself to rest hard: If you do all
of the above without resting, you're going to
be burned out in no time. So cut down on "useless"
activities such as playing video games.

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