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Monday, August 25, 2008

"How To Encourage A Girl To Be Naughtier"

Many guys would love to a girlfriend
who is a princess in public but a bit naughty
in the bedroom. Unfortunately, the two doesn't
always mix. So here are a few ways to help
you bring out your girlfriend's naughty side
in the bedroom.


1) It starts with your beliefs.

It all starts with your beliefs. You have
to be comfortable with being naughty (without
any guilt) before you can bring out the naughtiness
in a woman. You have to have a "matter of fact"
attitude when you talk about your fantasies. If you
are a bit embarrassed about intimacy, it will show
through in your voice tone and facial expression,
and the anti-slut response in the woman will be
triggered.


2) Encourage her to open up about her fantasies.


Once your stance on intimacy is clear,
encourage your girlfriend to be open about what
she likes in term of intimate contact. Start
small and take little steps. She will warm up
over time.


3) Never judge any of her fantasies negatively.

Remember to never judge anything she
likes. Don't ever criticize anything she has
done in the past. If you do, her anti-slut
defense will kick in!


4) Be playful and talk dirty


Be playful, flirty, and try to talk
dirty when the energy is right. "I want to
tap that ass" may be derogatory if you say
it to a random woman. But if you say it
to your girlfriend with the right voice tone
at the right moment, she'll love it.


5) Be discreet

Don't ever, ever kiss and tell.
What happens between you two should STAY
between you too.


6) Create a safe environment

Speaking of being discreet, remember
to create a safe environment for her to be
naughty with you. If she is feeling uncomfortable,
you're not going to anywhere with her!

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