Many guys would love to a girlfriend
who is a princess in public but a bit naughty
in the bedroom. Unfortunately, the two doesn't
always mix. So here are a few ways to help
you bring out your girlfriend's naughty side
in the bedroom.
1) It starts with your beliefs.
It all starts with your beliefs. You have
to be comfortable with being naughty (without
any guilt) before you can bring out the naughtiness
in a woman. You have to have a "matter of fact"
attitude when you talk about your fantasies. If you
are a bit embarrassed about intimacy, it will show
through in your voice tone and facial expression,
and the anti-slut response in the woman will be
triggered.
2) Encourage her to open up about her fantasies.
Once your stance on intimacy is clear,
encourage your girlfriend to be open about what
she likes in term of intimate contact. Start
small and take little steps. She will warm up
over time.
3) Never judge any of her fantasies negatively.
Remember to never judge anything she
likes. Don't ever criticize anything she has
done in the past. If you do, her anti-slut
defense will kick in!
4) Be playful and talk dirty
Be playful, flirty, and try to talk
dirty when the energy is right. "I want to
tap that ass" may be derogatory if you say
it to a random woman. But if you say it
to your girlfriend with the right voice tone
at the right moment, she'll love it.
5) Be discreet
Don't ever, ever kiss and tell.
What happens between you two should STAY
between you too.
6) Create a safe environment
Speaking of being discreet, remember
to create a safe environment for her to be
naughty with you. If she is feeling uncomfortable,
you're not going to anywhere with her!
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Monday, August 25, 2008
"How To Encourage A Girl To Be Naughtier"
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Friday, August 22, 2008
"How To Make A Woman Jealous"
Due to popular demand, I am going
to show you a few ways to make a woman
jealous.
First, a word of warning though:
When used properly, the following tactics
can make you seem like more a prize. But
if is EXTREMELY easy to cross the line
and push the woman away. So make sure you
know what you're doing before you use
these techniques. They can SERIOUSLY back
fire on you. You have been warned.
1) Change Your Priorities
The first technique is to pay
attention to things other than her. This
may include your friends, your hobbies,
and other things that don't include her.
If you're currently too needy,
doing this can actually help your
relationship. But of course, if you overdo
it and start neglecting your relationship,
it will backfire on you and ultimately
push your girlfriend away.
2) Raise Your Social Proof
The second thing to do is to
raise your social proof by improving
yourself.
If you look around you, you
will see that once a woman gets into
a relationship with a man, she will often
"dorkify" him by getting him dorky clothes
and making him look uncool.
So if you start working out, getting
nice haircuts, or getting a nice wardrobe,
she may start fearing that other women may
find you attractive.
Just don't overdo it. If you bring
out an uncontrollable jealous streak in
her, it's going to kill your relationship.
3) Befriend Girls
Lastly, if you have a few casual friends
that are female, it's going to drive your girlfriend
crazy. Just make sure you never cheat on her
and that you don't do it do a point that she leaves
you because she thinks you're a cheater.
It's all about the balance!
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