Go Out To Have Fun, Not To Pick Up Chicks

Here is an important rule to remember when
you go out to pick up woman:

Go out not because you want to get girls,
but because you want to have fun with your buddies.

I'll give you an example:

2 guys go to the beach. The first guy is
there to pick up chicks. He gawks at the girls
and approaches everyone. The second guy is there
with his buddies and they are just there to have
a great time. A few girls walk by as they are playing
volleyball and he makes a casual comment about a
hat one of the girls is wearing. He invites her
to serve for his team for good luck. A few minutes
later they start talking naturally.

Which guy will look cool, and which
guy will look like a complete tool?

Here's what it all boils down to:
If you look like you're there to have fun with
your friends, you will look less desperate and
your approaches will look more natural and
spontaneous. On top of that, you will also have
more social proof because chances are, the girls
will have seen you having fun with your buddies.
And when you look like you're having a great time,
then it will be natural for other people to want
to join in the fun and become part of it
as well.

So what are you waiting for? Go hang
out with your friends!

"20 First Date Dating Tips"

1) Flirt a lot. Be playful.

2) Tease her a lot and act like a challenge.

3) Stay in control and lead the date.

3) Avoid talking about politics, religion, and controversial
topics.

4) Give her your full attention. Don't check out other women.

5) Make good eye contact.

6) Have strong body language.

7) Don't talk about your past relationships, and change topics
when she talks about her past relationships.

8) Act positive and optimistic.

9) Don't make offensive jokes.

10) Don't act needy or kiss her ass.

11) Compliment her a little, but not too much. Remain a
challenge.

12) Be on time.

13) Play it cool.

14) Don't get drunk. Seriously.

15) Dress well and groom yourself before you see her.

16) Give her a big hug as soon as you meet her. Why? A little
physical touching right off the bat can be a good start!

17) Keep advancing in a subtle manner. Holding her hand? See
if you can get a kiss next, and so on.

18) Build rapport and have a stimulating conversation.

19) Act like a gentelman. Open doors and pull out chairs naturally.

20) Relax and have fun!

"How To Recover From A Breakup"

Here are some tips on how to recover from a breakup.


1) Cut All Contact
No matter you're moving on or trying to get your ex back ( see www.reverseyourbreakup.com ), it is very important that you CUT ALL CONTACT with your ex. This will help rebuild your confidence so thatyou can move on.

2) Workout
Working out at the gym will help you get your ex off your mind. The endorphins released during your workouts will make you a happier person. The body you get from working out will also make you a more confident person.

3) See Your Friends
Remember all the friends that you've ditched just to hang out with your ex? Start hanging out with them again! Go hang out with them and let them lift you up!

4) Meet New Friends
You should also meet as many NEW friends as possible while you're single again. Being sociable is one of the best ways to meet members of the opposite sex. Even if you don't want to start dating againyet, meeting new people will help you get your mind offyour ex.

5) Spend Time With Family
Spending time with family is a good way to "recharge" your energy while you're single.

6) Find New hobbies
Spend some time on a new hobby or two while you're single. Besides taking your mind off your ex, developing your passion for different hobbies or subjects will definitely make you a more interesting and well-rounded person. Plus, chances are you will be able to meet men or women who enjoy the same hobbies as you do.

7) Education and Self-Improvement
Take a few college classes and buy a few self-improvement programs. You can NEVER spend too much time or money on your self-education.

8) Go After Your Dreams
Ambition is the most powerful aphrodisiac. Setting a long term goal will definitely help lift you out of your blues.

9) See Other People
See other people casually. This will help you build up your confidence again. You don't have to get into another long-term relationship right away...but at least start seeing other people!

10) Improve Your Dating Skills
Lastly, you should improve your dating skills while you are single. You want to make sure you don't repeat whatever mistakes you made last time with your ex. Remember: If you keep on doing the same things, you're going to keep getting the same results. I have seen too many "stubborn" people bump into the SAME walls OVER AND OVER with every person they date.