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Friday, March 28, 2008

should you mix approaching with flirting?

A "noob" mistake that I see some of my readers
do all the time is that they try to combine approaching
women with flirting and teasing before they are ready
to do so.

When you're playing basketball, you learn to
dribble and you learn to shoot. Both are important
skills to have and do work together eventually, but
at the beginning, they need to be practiced separately
until you are ready to do them simultaneously.

Dating is no different. If you worry about
approaching women when you should be practicing
your flirting, it's going to kill your success. And
if you worry about how you should be flirting with
a woman before you approach her, it's going to lower
your confidence and make yourself stumble.

That's why you should practice approaching
women and flirting with them separately until they
both become second nature to you.

Start by flirt with every woman you come
across casually. Just let go of your expectations
and be playful. Forget about the results and just
do it. Flirt with all the females within your social
circle. (If you don't have one, it's time to get
one!)

Once you can do that, then start approaching
strangers (not just women, but men as well) and
small-talk them. Focus on meeting people and
developing your natural curiosity towards things and
people in general.

Finally, combine the two together and flirt
with the women you approach. Use some of the more
advanced flirting routines I've taught you such
as the "Name Tease Flirting Routine" I sent you
the other day.

I promise you'll have more success if you
break things down and practice before putting everything
back together again!

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