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Monday, February 11, 2008

Developing Rapport through Voice tone matching

Here is an exercise I would like you to do to work on your voice tone matching skills.This is an important technique you can use tobuild rapport with women.

1) Choose an unimportant situation youdon't get about...with someone you don't careabout.

Pick a situation where you don't careabout the outcome at all, such as a casual conversation on the bus or a meeting with afriend of a friend.

2) Match their voice tone.

As you talk to the person, pay attentionto the tempo and voice tone of their voice. Tryto adjust your own tempo and voice tone until you are matching theirs. Now see if there is a feeling of rapportin the conversation.

3) Mismatch their voice tone.

Next, try to mismatch your tempo and voicetone on purpose. Notice how this impacts therapport.

4) Go back to matching

Finally, change back to matching the person'svoice tone. See if you regain the rapport.

With a little bit of practice, you will be able to build rapport by matching a person'svoice. You will get so used to it that itwill become second nature to you. That is when youcan used my advanced conversation techniques to "lead" a conversation with your voice tone!

Source: http://www.datebeautifulwomen.com/

1 comment:

JGG said...

Informative. Thanks for these. Hala, kung kanunay ko magbalikbalik nganhi tingali mawala na sa hingpit ang akong katalawan kang Eba. Unsa na ni uy! Ambot lang! I-link tika ba sa akong blog nga English (gervacio.wordpress.com) kay English ra ba ni. balik balik nya ko.