Go Out To Have Fun, Not To Pick Up Chicks

Here is an important rule to remember when
you go out to pick up woman:

Go out not because you want to get girls,
but because you want to have fun with your buddies.

I'll give you an example:

2 guys go to the beach. The first guy is
there to pick up chicks. He gawks at the girls
and approaches everyone. The second guy is there
with his buddies and they are just there to have
a great time. A few girls walk by as they are playing
volleyball and he makes a casual comment about a
hat one of the girls is wearing. He invites her
to serve for his team for good luck. A few minutes
later they start talking naturally.

Which guy will look cool, and which
guy will look like a complete tool?

Here's what it all boils down to:
If you look like you're there to have fun with
your friends, you will look less desperate and
your approaches will look more natural and
spontaneous. On top of that, you will also have
more social proof because chances are, the girls
will have seen you having fun with your buddies.
And when you look like you're having a great time,
then it will be natural for other people to want
to join in the fun and become part of it
as well.

So what are you waiting for? Go hang
out with your friends!