Where to Take Women on Dates

Here are a few good ideas for a first
date.


1) Bowling

Bowling is a good example of a "fun"
date. You will get to interact with her, and
if you are good at bowling, you can even teach
her a trick or too.


2) Dessert

Women can rarely turn down a good dessert.
Look for a good dessert place in your town and
take women there for a date. They'll love it!


3) Ice Skating

Ice-skating isn't just a cheesy date
idea from movies. It actually works. Hold her
hand and teach her how to skate if she doesn't
know how.


4) Mini Golf

Just like ice-skating and bowling,
mini golf is a fun date that will allow you
to interact with her.


5) Dinner At Home

Offer to cook her dinner or to let her
cook YOU dinner at your house. It's nice, casual
AND romantic!


6) Dinner Theatre

Instead of just going out for food, look
for a dinner theatre for a fun evening of
entertainment.


7) Picnic

Picnics are fun. Be classy and get some
nice cheese from your local specialty
cheese shop!



8) Art Museum

If the woman is the artsy type, take her
to an art gallery or museum. To avoid looking like
an idiot, make sure you know at least a little bit
about art yourself...

What players have that you dont have?

Last time I talked about how there
are many men out there who resist the theory
of attraction. Today I am going to confront
another group of men - guys who think it is
hard for them to get a girlfriend because
they are not players.

Here is what I think: Instead of
of envying players because they get more
women than you do, think about how you can
learn from them and borrow some of their good
qualities that you lack...


For example...


1) Do they flirt more than you? (Flirting
and being playful are extremely important
when it comes to building attraction.)

2) Do they have more experience than you?
(As my romantic intelligence theory goes,
a lot of players are good with women
simply because they started out at a younger
age.)

3) Do they act like more of a challenge than you?
(This ties in with experience. A man with
more experience and lots of options can
AFFORD being a challenge.)

4) Are they more sociable than you?
(As I have stated in the past, I have yet
to meet a player who isn't sociable.)


5) Do they have a better external image than you?
(It is not who you are inside, but what
kind of IMAGE you give image, that matters.)


6) Are they more comfortable with their
own body than you are?
(How can you close if you aren't even
feel comfortable cuddling with a woman?)



Once you have identified the
things that you lack, then the next step
is to work on getting the same things. Work
on one thing at a time, and eventually
you will have the same success.

By the way, you can use the same
technique to model yourself after successful
people in various fields including business
and school!

In Defense of Attraction

One criticism that I get all the time,
especially from my "more conservative readers"
from other cultures, is that it is "wrong"
to treat attraction seriously because it creates
social problems. According to these guys...


1) Divorce rate is higher in Western countries
because people are allowed to pick the partners
they like.


2) Women and men often cheat in Western cultures.


3) Women are more materialistic in Western cultures


4) Pre-arranged marriages have worked for thousands
of years, and the concept of "dating" is still
relatively new, so it may not be "right".


5) If everyone just listened to their hearts, people
would be no better than animals.


6) Flirting sucks because it creates uncertainty. It
is not logical.


7) Allowing women to dress up in sexy clothes create
many problems.




Here is my response to this bullsh**:


1) The divorce rate has actually been dropping in
Western countries in recent years. But that is
besides the point, as even a higher divorce rate
does not necessarily mean "dating" and "attraction"
are bad. Why? Because up to a hundred years ago,
divorces were not even available to the general
public. Kings and rich men could divorce (and
take on new wives), but not the average guy. Ask
your grandparents if it would have been appropriate
for their own grandparents to get a divorce!

Just because there were less divorces back then
doesn't mean people were any happier.


2) Cheating has existed in every culture since
the dawn of time. Plus, it's funny how the
guys who complain to me about their wives looking
at other guys are often the same guys who cheat
on their wives...

Hypocrites!

Instead of worrying about women cheating on you
because they have the freedom to, worry about
how to keeping your relationship healthy so
that they won't WANT to.

Hint: Check out: http://www.smartrelationshipscourse.com


3) As I have stated before, most people are
at least a tiny bit materialistic. Women in
western societies may consume more because
they have more money. But it's no different than
the parents of a woman from a more traditional
culture wanting to force their daughter into
marriage the rich local landlord. (Explain THAT!)


4) I really think guys who whine about attraction
do so out of fear. They feel like they are
losing power. Instead of adapting to an
important trend, they just get angry and upset.

Here is my advice if you belong to
this group of men:


Subject yourself to change!


You gotta subject yourself to change
before it subjugates YOU. This is an eternal
law that applies to the rise and fall of
people, companies, and nations. If you don't
change in changing times, you're going to
fall.

Family, national, and religious values
will continue to have less and less power over
relationships and love. Don't fight it. Learn
how to use it to your advantage!