How To Overcome Your Shyness Around Women

Today we're going to talk about what youshould do if you're shy around women. First of all, you need to find out ifyou are shy around women or shy around people in general. It is a *very* important distinction. A lot of guys email me for help becausethey feel shy whenever they talk to a woman. Butmost of the time, it turns out they are also afraid of talking to strangers. This is why thefirst step of overcoming your shyness with womenshould be to find out if you're afraid of women or of strangers in general. If you have problem talking to strangersin general, then really, you should focus on becoming more sociable before you worry aboutpicking up women.


But let's say your problem isn't talking tostrangers. Let's say you're a very
sociable person,but you just have problem talking to girls. Here area few tips
to overcome that:

1) Flirt with girls you don't find attractive topractice. This will help you
pick up the flirtyattitude.

2) Focus on being a challenge, no matter how hotthe girl is. This will help
you remain in control of yourself.

3) Surround yourself with female friends. It is thebest way to become
more comfortable around women.

4) At the beginning, flirt with girls but without making it look like you're
asking then out.

5) Confidence comes from competence, which comesfrom practice *and* knowledge.
So visit my blog regularly and drill everything into your head.

6) Take baby steps. Start by saying "hi". Once you'recomfortable with that, make friends. Eventuallystart flirting. Similarly, if beautiful women intimidateyou, then approach more average-looking women untilyou are more confident.

7) Imagine you are talking to an old friend.

8) Imagine you are talking to a girl to hook her upwith a buddy of yours.

9) Relax and stop caring about the results. Focuson the fun instead!


Source: Marius Panzarella
http://www.datebeautifulwomen.com/